I have spoken about various games we play in relationships. The games that are mostly negative drain the relationship of its charm and effectively kill all the love and care that partners can have for each other. Here is one more such game that is played in relationships. It is called - please I am not at fault. Do not blame me. Or tell me what I shall do, and I will do that. Unsaid part- you know very well that I will never do what you advise, but blame you after everything fails.

Partners who have been lucky to get a partner who tolerates a lot generally play this game. In this relationship The game playing partner knows that all will be tolerated and the poor partner will try his/her best to set things right. Why should I bother at all? These are lazy partners. These are dishonest partners. These are destructive partners. They can extract life away from a charming individual and make him/her feel guilty and helpless for no fault. They destroy the relationship.

In such a relationship what is the remedy for such situations? First the victim has to understand the game that is being played. After that the victim should get away from taking any part in the game. Once the victim refuses to get persecuted, the abuser will have trouble playing the game. Either they will have to mend their ways or the relationship will break down.

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I was watching him. Sometimes, he was giving a faint smile. Then he started looking at the ceiling and then started changing his feet position while sitting. After that he was sitting still for some more time. Then he got up and left the room.

Do you also observe your partner carefully? What do you know about what might be going in his/her mind? Can you predict about her/his thoughts? Many of us believe that we know about our partners and that we are very close. But if your partner sits across you and thinks of something with matching body movements, would you be able to guess about what was in his/her mind? I bet, most of you will fail. I feel very sad saying this, but the truth is that most of us will fail. Why do not you ask your partner to predict about what is in your mind? You will find out yourself. This is tragic for our relationships. Let me tell you how.

As long as the relationship is going very strong, nothing matters. But after few years, cracks appear for different reasons. Those who have the understanding about their partners mind can take care of that misunderstanding quickly. Others never get a hint that something is boiling. They realize only after a lot is lost.

Please find out more about each other when the going is good. Play this game of I guess, you guess regularly. This will help you more about understanding each other and will stop any crisis mid way.

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